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• Clandestine

  

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  August 7, 2012 3:32:35 PM HKT

  I am member of dating website and talking to some boys from it on there.

  Are they all playboy or is possible find a love from it?

   

  My friend is telling me it can find her but she is still search for it.

   

  Is anyone here member of date site or meet husband and wife from it?

• Flawed Genius

  

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  August 7, 2012 4:12:42 PM HKT

  An old member of this website used online dating sites to find single men. Let me tell you, it didn't end well but of course that may just be circumstantial.

   

  Good luck with it.

  
  This post was edited by Flawed Genius at August 7, 2012 4:13:29 PM HKT
• The Imam

  

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  August 7, 2012 4:23:24 PM HKT

  Yes, all men on dating sites are playboys. They all drive fast Italian sportscars, own yachts, and wear double-breasted navy blazers, cravats and boat shoes.

   

  

  
  This post was edited by The Imam at August 7, 2012 4:26:16 PM HKT
• The Imam

  

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  August 7, 2012 4:28:27 PM HKT

  However, they only log on to these dating sites when they are not busy racing F1 cars or gambling on the high-stakes roulette table at Monte Carlo Casino.
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 7, 2012 4:53:44 PM HKT

  who?
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 7, 2012 5:17:40 PM HKT

  

   

  I used to love this show.  I still do in fact.  It was glamour.

• The Imam

  

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  August 7, 2012 7:25:21 PM HKT

  Yeah I loved it too. Two impossibly handsome guys, great cars, ridiculous premise, cheapo action, bimbos, the works. I think Tarantino should bring it to the big screen.
• The Imam

  

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  August 7, 2012 7:27:35 PM HKT

  Damien Brody as the Noo York wise guy and Michael Fassbender as the toff. Or?
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 7, 2012 7:42:25 PM HKT

  That makes me think. Tyler, you and me should make our own cop show based in Shanghai. You could be the well-educated, cultured bloke that sips coffee in the morning and I could be the bloke from the wrong side of the tracks.
  
  We could call it:
  
  Sugar & Spice.
  
  Apart they are tasty, together they are............
  
  complementary!!
  
  Car chases, drug dealers, big houses being blown up and voodoo dollies.
• The Imam

  

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  August 7, 2012 9:50:15 PM HKT

  All of that. Except you are better looking than me and would therefore pull all the hottest babes.
  
  It just won't do.
• Quantum Mechanic

  

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  August 8, 2012 12:16:02 AM HKT

  I worked with 2 cops one named Sugar (big black dude) and Coffee (Big white dude)
  Hated each other
• Clandestine

  

  • 5 posts
   

  August 8, 2012 3:07:12 PM HKT

  yes. I cancel the profile.
• anter

  

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  August 8, 2012 3:42:44 PM HKT

  Good move Clandestine. Meet an expat guy, if that is you interest, at the supermarkets expats like to shop at. Do not give it up i.e. have sex, for several dates. If he runs away he was just not that into you.
  
  Repeat the process.
• The Imam

  

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  August 8, 2012 4:29:05 PM HKT

  Good advice from Anter.

   

  For a really hot girl, I would go the distance for at least six or seven dates before concluding that she was never going to put out.

   

  It took me about three months of courtship to get to DefCon One with my bird.

   

  Clandestine, the secret is to grant increasing levels of access with each date. Your target has to feel like he's always making progress.

   

  If he's seriously into you, he is going to be wanking off about five times per day by the time you're ready to cave in and admit him to DefCon level One.

   

  DO NOT save yourself for after the marriage. This is a recipe for disaster.

• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 8, 2012 4:47:48 PM HKT

  so much games and strategy. hahaha...
• anter

  

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  August 8, 2012 4:49:06 PM HKT

  Also do not stalk him with dozens of texts and phone calls. Guys hate that, even if they are married to you.
  
  There is a window when they will tolerate it but that is usually just before, think they are getting sex, or more sex.
  
  Don't do it. And do not listen to GFs on this. It kills any potential the relationship may have for future serious ends.
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 8, 2012 5:00:32 PM HKT

  Chinese guys do it. It seems to work for them.
• Deuce Bigalow

  

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  August 8, 2012 5:35:41 PM HKT

  I used to be a pro in this....
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 8, 2012 5:43:55 PM HKT

  ^ I believe you are only a pro at consuming food.
• The Brüv - 寡人

  

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  August 8, 2012 5:50:22 PM HKT

  asiafriendfinder.com
  
• The Imam

  

  • 685 posts
   

  August 8, 2012 6:07:47 PM HKT

  Watch out for the SweetShanghai dating site! Where Shanghai office girls can hook up with jaded Western bong salesmen! Breaks the ice at parties!
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 8, 2012 6:18:25 PM HKT

  oh no you didn't.................
• The Imam

  

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  August 8, 2012 6:26:36 PM HKT

  OK. I'll admit it. I never sold bongs.
• Blue Marlin

  

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  August 8, 2012 6:47:21 PM HKT

  met my wife on smart shanghai....7 years later still married and have a 3 year old son
• Deleted Member

  
   

  August 8, 2012 6:50:59 PM HKT

  PC was that for me?I'm an office girl and Snurdy does seem like a bong salesman(haha). However I've never met him before. Also I think I only hooked up with western people when I'm not in China. But even then I was not having sex. So I do not worry about it. I like meeting people through real encounters.